Sonny Draper Obituary Sonny Draper December 15, 1930 - August 4, 2022 Boykins - Lucian Felton "Sonny" Draper, Jr., went home to be with his Lord on August 4, 2022 while being cared for by the staff of East Pavilion Senior Living Center since June 2022. A devoted husband, brother, grandfather, and friend, Sonny was born in Boykins, VA on December 15, 1930, the son of late L. F. Draper and late Ethel Shaffer Draper. In addition to his parents and his stepmother, Katherine Francis Draper, he was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 64 years, Patricia Person Draper, brother Joe Draper and wife Lucy, and brother-in-law, Joe Person. His 91 years of life were dedicated to serving His Lord, his country, his fellow man and his family. A 1948 graduate of Boykins High School, he attended Virginia Tech as a ROTC cadet. Upon graduating in 1952 with a BS degree in Agronomy, Sonny, accompanied by his new bride, Pat, began his two-year tour of duty with the Army. After serving his country in Texas and Pennsylvania, Sonny and Pat returned to Boykins to manage the family farm and business, Draper Building Supply, Inc. Working many years in construction business, Sonny was known for his meticulous skills. He used those skills as he volunteered to construct handicap ramps in the community and to assist with construction projects on 24 mission trips. As hard-working as Sonny was, he was a proud Va. Tech alum who enjoyed Virginia Tech football. His favorite pastime was attending Virginia Tech games with his wife, brother, sister-in-law and friends, George and Mary Jim Davis. A life-long, dedicated member of the Boykins United Methodist Church, Sonny served his Lord as an adult Sunday School teacher for 66 years, a lay speaker, a choir member, and chairman of multiple church committees. As a faithful witness for the Lord, Sonny served as a Gideon with the Southampton camp, participated in the church s food distribution and the prison ministry. Serving his community, Sonny was actively involved for more than 60 years with the Lions Club and the Masonic Lodge. Generous with his time, talents, and treasures, Sonny, who served his fellow man with great kindness, contributed to charities and causes whenever there was a need. Sonny is survived by his three children, Lu Haywood and her husband Bill, of Newport News, Steve Draper and his wife Lisa of Boykins, and Sandy Black and her husband Jon of Aberdeen, NC. He is also survived by his five grandsons who witnessed his service to family as a devoted caregiver to "Grammy" for 14 years prior to her death in 2016. Proud grandsons are Rev. Nathan Black (and wife Dixie), Trent Black, Chase Black, Will Black, and Bryan Draper. The funeral will be conducted at 11am, Saturday August 13, 2022 in Boykins United Methodist Church with Pastor Keith Jordan officiating. Masonic rites will be accorded in the church. The burial will follow at Beechwood Cemetery. A reception will follow the service in the church fellowship hall. The family will receive friends Friday, August 12, 2022 from 6 to 8pm at the residence at 18365 Virginia Ave, Boykins. His family would like to express sincere appreciation for his caregiver, Madeline, for her kind and compassionate care and the Boykins Volunteer Fire and Rescue Squad for their assistance in his care. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Boykins United Methodist Church, P. O. Box 246, Boykins, Virginia 23827 or Gideon International, P. O. 140800, Nashville, TN 37214. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- See also: 1) https://www.wrightfuneralhome.org/obituary/Sonny-Draper 2) https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/pilotonline/name/sonny-draper-obituary?id=36152179 3) https://www.pilotonline.com/obituaries/Sonny-Draper/ ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ### Narrative Summary of the Obituary Lucian Felton "Sonny" Draper, Jr., born 15 December 1930 in Boykins, VA, passed away on 4 August 2022. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and community servant. Sonny was a lifelong member of Boykins United Methodist Church and a proud Virginia Tech alumnus. ### Narrative Summary of Funeral Services Sonny Draper's funeral was held on 13 August 2022 at Boykins United Methodist Church with Pastor Keith Jordan officiating. Masonic rites were accorded, and burial followed at Beechwood Cemetery. ### The Edited Obituary Sonny Draper Obituary Sonny Draper 15 December 1930 - 4 August 2022 Boykins - Lucian Felton "Sonny" Draper, Jr., went home to be with his Lord on 4 August 2022 while being cared for by the staff of East Pavilion Senior Living Center since June 2022. A devoted husband, brother, grandfather, and friend, Sonny was born in Boykins, VA on 15 December 1930, the son of late L. F. Draper and late Ethel Shaffer Draper. In addition to his parents and his stepmother, Katherine Francis Draper, he was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 64 years, Patricia Person Draper, brother Joe Draper and wife Lucy, and brother in law, Joe Person. His 91 years of life were dedicated to serving His Lord, his country, his fellow man and his family. A 1948 graduate of Boykins High School, he attended Virginia Tech as a ROTC cadet. Upon graduating in 1952 with a BS degree in Agronomy, Sonny, accompanied by his new bride, Pat, began his two year tour of duty with the Army. After serving his country in Texas and Pennsylvania, Sonny and Pat returned to Boykins to manage the family farm and business, Draper Building Supply, Inc. Working many years in construction business, Sonny was known for his meticulous skills. He used those skills as he volunteered to construct handicap ramps in the community and to assist with construction projects on 24 mission trips. As hard working as Sonny was, he was a proud Va. Tech alum who enjoyed Virginia Tech football. His favorite pastime was attending Virginia Tech games with his wife, brother, sister in law and friends, George and Mary Jim Davis. A lifelong, dedicated member of the Boykins United Methodist Church, Sonny served his Lord as an adult Sunday School teacher for 66 years, a lay speaker, a choir member, and chairman of multiple church committees. As a faithful witness for the Lord, Sonny served as a Gideon with the Southampton camp, participated in the church's food distribution and the prison ministry. Serving his community, Sonny was actively involved for more than 60 years with the Lions Club and the Masonic Lodge. Generous with his time, talents, and treasures, Sonny, who served his fellow man with great kindness, contributed to charities and causes whenever there was a need. Sonny is survived by his three children, Lu Haywood and her husband Bill, of Newport News, Steve Draper and his wife Lisa of Boykins, and Sandy Black and her husband Jon of Aberdeen, NC. He is also survived by his five grandsons who witnessed his service to family as a devoted caregiver to "Grammy" for 14 years prior to her death in 2016. Proud grandsons are Rev. Nathan Black (and wife Dixie), Trent Black, Chase Black, Will Black, and Bryan Draper. The funeral will be conducted at 11 am, Saturday 13 August 2022 in Boykins United Methodist Church with Pastor Keith Jordan officiating. Masonic rites will be accorded in the church. The burial will follow at Beechwood Cemetery. A reception will follow the service in the church fellowship hall. The family will receive friends Friday, 12 August 2022 from 6 to 8 pm at the residence at 18365 Virginia Ave, Boykins. His family would like to express sincere appreciation for his caregiver, Madeline, for her kind and compassionate care and the Boykins Volunteer Fire and Rescue Squad for their assistance in his care. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Boykins United Methodist Church, P. O. Box 246, Boykins, Virginia 23827 or Gideon International, P. O. 140800, Nashville, TN 37214. ### Vital Statistics Summary | Name | Lucian Felton Sonny Draper, Jr. | |---------|---------------------------------| | Age | 91 | | Birth | 15 December 1930; Boykins, VA | | Death | 4 August 2022; Boykins, VA | ### Table of Relationships | Name | Relationship | Residence | |---------------------------------|------------------------------|------------------| | Lucian Felton Sonny Draper, Jr. | Decedent | Boykins, VA | | Patricia Person Draper | Spouse (predeceased) | -- | | L. F. Draper | Parent (predeceased) | -- | | Ethel Shaffer Draper | Parent (predeceased) | -- | | Joe Draper | Brother (predeceased) | -- | | Katherine Francis Draper | Stepmother (predeceased) | -- | | Joe Person | Brother-in-law (predeceased) | -- | | Lu Haywood | Child | Newport News, VA | | Steve Draper | Child | Boykins, VA | | Sandy Black | Child | Aberdeen, NC | | Rev. Nathan Black | Grandchild | Unknown | | Trent Black | Grandchild | Unknown | | Chase Black | Grandchild | Unknown | | Will Black | Grandchild | Unknown | | Bryan Draper | Grandchild | Unknown | ### Other Relevant Information 1. Graduated from Boykins High School in 1948. 2. Attended Virginia Tech as an ROTC cadet. 3. Graduated from Virginia Tech in 1952 with a BS degree in Agronomy. 4. Served a two-year tour of duty with the Army in Texas and Pennsylvania. 5. Managed the family farm and business, Draper Building Supply, Inc. 6. Known for meticulous skills in the construction business. 7. Volunteered to construct handicap ramps in the community. 8. Assisted with construction projects on 24 mission trips. 9. Proud Virginia Tech alumnus who enjoyed attending football games. 10. Life-long, dedicated member of the Boykins United Methodist Church. 11. Served as an adult Sunday School teacher for 66 years. 12. Served as a lay speaker and choir member at his church. 13. Chaired multiple church committees. 14. Served as a Gideon with the Southampton camp. 15. Participated in the church's food distribution and prison ministry. 16. Actively involved for more than 60 years with the Lions Club and the Masonic Lodge. 17. Known for his generosity and kindness, contributing to charities and causes. 18. Served as a devoted caregiver to his wife for 14 years prior to her death in 2016.